Praise
be to ALLAH Almighty….
This question was asked by a sister
who want to explain this reason to a Non-Muslim.so i’m trying to explain him in
most easy way with truth…if i’m wrong at any place,pls correct me….
World female population is more than male
population, Average life span of females is more than that of males Of course
By nature males and females are born in approximately the same ratio. A female
child has more immunity than a male child. A female child can fight the germs
and diseases better than the male child. For this reason, during the pediatric
age itself there are more deaths among males as compared to the females.
Also, During wars, there are more men
killed as compared to women. More men die due to accidents and diseases than
women. The average life span of females is more than that of males, and at any
given time one finds more widows in the world than widowers.
before explaining the matter i would like
to tell you that feel that there is no such law,make one Man with one
Female….then view the world.
Now….
Who will feed to those millions of women
left alone ????
Who will protect them ?
Who will give them food ?
Who will protect there modesty ?
Who will feed to there children ?
Who will fullfill there daily
requirements..?
Where they will stay without home ? on
roads ???
Yes,You can say they can work! How many can
work ???
Imagine a life of women/girl leaving
alone,working…..how many guys look at them for the chances ????
What they will do ? How they will get
protected ???
thats why ALLAH ALLOWED to HAVE MULTIPLE
WIVES…..
After the war on the start of Islam,when
there were hundred of females widow,whose husbands died in War.
then Allah Revealed Verses and Allowed
Muslims to have Multiple Wives,so that those womens can get
protection,space,can live.can get food ….
AND IN THE SAME LINE,OF THE COMMAND …. HE
ALSO SAID….
IF YOU THINK YOU CAN’T JUDGE BETWEEN
WIFES,THEN STAY WITH ONE ONLY.
Now…Look to the world and you will see
millions of females getting protection,food,home….
How Ever there are peoples who miss use the
command and use this option for personal gains and sexual desires. then indeed
they will pay….they will be punished by Allah….
Every
law that has been made, every commandment that has been given by Allah and
Islam contains always a proper reason and logic behind it.Now…Look with the
Proofs
Marriage from multiple women in Islam is
not allowed for those who might result in damaging the society with their
marriage by bringing more illiterate, poor, and in many cases starving children
to the society.
Look at Noble Verse 4:3
“If
ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans, marry women
of your choice,Two or three or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able
to deal justly (with them), then only one, or (a captive) that your right hands
possess, that will be more suitable, to prevent you from doing injustice.”
Notice how Allah Almighty allowed polygamy
only for helping the orphans (more women are needed to take care of the
Muslims’ and infidels’ orphans after every battle.)
Notice also how Allah Almighty ordered the
men to be either fair to their wives or else to never marry more than ONE WIFE
Let us look at Noble Verse 4:129 “Ye are never able to be fair and just as
between women, even if it is your ardent desire: But turn not away (from a
woman) altogether, so as to leave her (as it were) hanging (in the air). If ye
come to a friendly understanding, and practise self-restraint, God is
Oft-forgiving, Most Merciful.”
Here we clearly see that Allah Almighty
tells men that they will never be fair to their wives.SO HE SAID TO BE WITH
ONE.
Allah Almighty had revealed the Noble Verse
4:3 to Muhammad peace be upon him to solve the social problems that the
Muslims were facing.during the rise of Islam,when Many Muslims and Non-Muslims
died in battle with the peoples who were against the rise of ISLAM.
then who will take care of those females
who husbands died in battle from muslim side or non-muslim side mens…?????
That is Why Allah,The Almighty allowed
multiple wifes,but at the very beginning of the Noble Verse 4:3 we see Allah
Almighty setting a conditional clause for Orphans
“If
ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans…(4:3).”
This Noble Verse came down for the
purpose of protecting the Orphans and to increase the number of the Muslims by
allowing the men to marry multiple wives (preferably from the grown Orphans at
that time), up to four wives only.
The purpose was absolutely not for man’s
sexual pleasure nor privilege, nor was it to support man’s personal ego. It was
revealed to solve a major social problem to prevent major sins such as illegal
sex and prostitution.
Having Multiple wifes is not encouraged in
the Noble Quran, nor Allah Almighty had allowed it because He really liked it.
He was clearly careful to highly discourage
MUTIPLE WIVES to men by telling them
“but
if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only
one…(4:3)”
which clearly orders men to either be fair
or to not marry at all, despite the fact that we lost many men, Allah Almighty
still didn’t want polygamy to really take place.
That’s why He later told men
“Ye
are never able to be fair and just as between women, even if it is your ardent
desire…(4:129)”
which clearly nullifies the excuse that He
gave them to practice polygamy.
Is
this wrong or bad…????? Absolutely not!.
Islam does not allow marriage of multiple
wives for males’ sexual privileges and desires as Anti-Islamics claim. A normal
man who makes enough money to keep him surviving in life can not provide a fair
quality of life to all his wives, which means that he must not be allowed to
marry multiple wives because he will only make his society worse.
Yes,there are muslims who missuse the
command and marry multiple for personal gains and desires,then indeed they will
pay…
Many Islam haters use the verse to spread
lies and misconception about Islam,but the most important you will notice with
them,mostly they will few part,or half of the verse.Why ????
Why they forget that the commands were
reveald to prophet,when ever there was need.but they will leave all these
things and will make there own meaning of verse.Nauzbillah….
I Just want to say “if you are sitting
there to spread lie about Islam,then Indeed We are sitting here to spread the
truth and beauty of Islam.InshahAllah”….
And Allah Almighty knows best,
and may He forgive me if I made any
mistakes in this article.
hope this small Article will remove ur
confusion,if you still have any,let me know…
Written by King slave of Allah
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